Why SHOULD I have to follow dating rules? Also some pondering about sex.
I just had a thought today.
I’ve never dated, so I don’t know the dating scene, if you will, but why does it seem like there are so many rules when it comes to dating? Or rather, why do I imagine there are? For instance, who calls who and when.
Guy or girl, doesn’t matter. If you say you’re going to call, then call. There doesn’t have to be a ‘waiting period’ or whatever. If you want to call right away, then do it. I’m the most forgetful person ever, so for me personally, I’d more than likely call after the date, or else I’d totally forget. If you want to wait until morning, or a couple days from then, then do so. But don’t say you’d do something and not do it. Not cool. (Also applies to texting.) Same thing with being physical.
If I want to kiss someone, I’ll do it.
I’d let you know if I didn’t like it, or if I’m not interested in you that way.
If I just want to fuck whoever I’m with, I’ll say so.
Even if it’s on the first date, or first time ever meeting.
[Side note: Age, as those of you who know me personally know, doesn’t really matter to me — with the exclusion of men below 30. I just like…older men. Rare exceptions only. Everything else, as long as its legal, floats my boat. Or, you know, it could be a case-by-case basis…but on the whole, the above stands.]
Life’s too short to mess around with silly rules like these.
I see no flaw with this idea of mine. If I want sex or kisses or just want to hang out and be friends but also have sex, or maybe no sex at all, and just chill and watch movies, I’d say so. This applies to the other party as well. (Permission, of course, required for sex.) Hmmm, yes.
The only exception to the “why should I have to follow…” is that I’d be entirely loyal to you when in a clearly-defined (as in, it’s ‘official’ or whatever) relationship. I’d be yours if you just gave me food, but love and/or sex? And possibly with some food? I’d love you forever. I think I’d also be cool with threesomes and open relationships, so long as the boundaries would be defined for me, because sometimes what people say and what they mean are two different things. Yet, this is all speculation. Hah. Watch me turn out to be the most uptight bitch with relationships. That’d be bad!
Yes. Just thought I’d post this here, because why not?
Now I’m going to stay up crazy late and maybe watch some gay porn and play Sims: Medieval or Secrets of the Lost Cavern.
